6/10/2006

an update of our not so interesting life...

another saturday morning update here. We have decided to embark on a bit of remodeling for our home. It will be a bit of a process, but I don't think we are in any hurry. We are going to redo the laundry room, downstairs bath, and kitchen (eventually). We got a new washer and dryer from Jenica's dad. He works at Frigidaire, and they delivered a top of the line test model for free, but we have to complete surveys on it for a year. Hmmmm...lets think about that for a while...ok, we'll take it! Now if only BMW did that.

Leyla is sure an interesting kid. She does not like change (to an extreme) we have discovered. She broke down crying when she saw the new washer and dryer, saying she just likes our old one. The other day the city came by and cut down our dying 80 year old maple tree, and that was pretty upsetting to Leyla as well. She also doesn't want us doing any remodelling. And on an unrelated note, the other day she called Chloe a "naughty greedy little pig" when they weren't getting along. And for one more Leylaism, the day before her birthday, when I took her out on a date and we were discussing her upcoming birthday, she squeezed her eyes tight and said with upmost longing, "oh I wish tomorrow were today!".

Last weekend I took Jenica on a weekend getaway to the "Amana Colonies", which is a historic german village in central Iowa. I didn't know much about it, but went ahead and booked a bed and breakfast and bought some tickets to the local theatre there. Well, no one clued me in the unwritten law that you had to be retired to be there. When we walked into the theatre, and saw that we were the only people there under 65, we felt a little intimidated. Not that we don't enjoy and respect the elderly, we just felt our of place. And not to mention that everything at the Amana's seemed subpar. The food wasn't that great, the bed and breakfast was relatively pitiful, and the play we saw had a story line about as interesting as "see spot run". We did a little wine tasting as well - I never new you could make "dandelion" wine. It was interesting, but it definitely curbed my urges to go out and eat dandelions.

We had fun just being together without kids. As I grow closer to my wife it is amazing how much joy there is in having a deep relationship with another person. Someone you love to just be with and commune with. The absolute best part of the weekend was the trip back - we took a backroads highway, windows down sunroof open music on holding hands blasting down the highway about as fast as we dared. Proof to the saying that any happily married couple knows: it doesn't matter what you do as long as it is together. In fact, I have decided when it comes to just being together less is indeed more. Simple times are often just as - or more - enjoyable as the busy planned out vacations.

6 comments:

voni said...

I have a husband that gets attached to things as well as as my son. LOL What a nice way to get a new dryer.
We have never been to the Amana Colonies so thanks for the heads up:) Glad that you and Jenica could spend some time together and thanks for the update.

Alan said...

"naughty greedy little pig"

That is hilarious...err...I mean terrible. :)

Anonymous said...

Kids are the greatest. Ella is right now crying because she doesn't like sleeping in her bed...(ever)

BTW, I enjoyed listening to your message last week.

HopiQ said...

You made me smile and laugh by turns! Enjoy that new washer and dryer...we've had ours a year...and LOVE them. They're big and helpful. Not frigidaire, though. Our ancient hand-me-down set gave up the ghost the week Joshua was born. Not a good time to be without them!

I love your descriptions of being together and loving it, no matter what you're doing.

Jenica, you must be brave! You can do it! Thank you for the compliment to my blog. I'm still exploring my creative side in that area. I probably can spend too much time on it! I get my cues from some other blogs. Foremost is Domestic Adventures, the blog of my dear friend, Allison. Then I discovered Mrs. Wilt's "The Sparrow's Nest." Hers is so beautiful! But...the codes are beyond my comprehension yet. I was stumbling through just putting in links to other's blogs.

Love you!!!

Micah said...

I bet you were listening to Petra while driving the backroads.

LORD I MUST HAVE BEEN BLIND said...

Wish we had learned those lessons about our relationship as early as you all have...it is indeed THE most important relationship on this side.Keep up the great work!!